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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby Yugocean » 25 Jan 2023, 05:46

Ok then is your youth of bloosm, get married to a well settled guy, don't wait yourself.
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby Netherrealmer » 14 Feb 2023, 10:11

kinansusantini wrote:or teens who already have their financial freedom maybe this is a good thing
The thing is teens have no financial freedom yet and they still have maturity of children, most of them make the worst parents
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby nela13 » 14 Feb 2023, 10:17

Netherrealmer wrote:
kinansusantini wrote:or teens who already have their financial freedom maybe this is a good thing
The thing is teens have no financial freedom yet and they still have maturity of children, most of them make the worst parents

Teens need to be teens, it is an important phase of their lives and it is usually associated with some rebellion and discovery of who they really are. Getting married when they are teens will destroy their future, especially if they became parents too young.
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby Nii » 17 Feb 2023, 19:25

In the other way round, if you marry and raise kids early, you would be done with raising children early and retire early too.
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby Real ekom » 17 Feb 2023, 21:32

Getting married at a tender age is cool but it usually comes with lots of challenges, most times the couples will have to invite and older person or their parents to come settle some issues, these issues might be a very minor case that could have been dealth with even without calling a third party to it.
Not all family matters are to be shared with others, but in the case of young ones, they will put it to everyone around and it usi lead to separation I future.
Getting married as a teenager is cool in one way because they will have kids on time and enjoy a lasting relationship, but this only depends on understanding between the couples.
Although there is no age bracket for marriage, afterall the best time to marry is at a teenage age in order to enjoy long time relationship.
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby augusta » 19 Feb 2023, 05:56

Yesh children comes with a lot of responsibilities you would need to devise means of caring for them and also conserving money
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby Yugocean » 19 Mar 2023, 15:14

Ok, so now you think you can get married? Today marriage is no longer license for sex, it is household and family responsibility, it was always. Our ancestors were better, they married early too, and were better in running family.
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby astutimeliana723 » 19 Mar 2023, 23:50

In our country many people marry young, on average around 18-30 years is the time when they decide to get married. As for me, there is no problem getting married at any age, as long as he is ready to bear all the responsibilities after the wedding. Not only financial freedom, they must also be ready to take care of children. Because it often happens here, young couples who are married and have their second child are still working, and their young children are entrusted to the parents on the husband's or wife's side. It's a pity, they are old, they should relax and enjoy their old age, but they still have to be busy taking care of their young grandchildren.
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby nela13 » 20 Mar 2023, 17:06

astutimeliana723 wrote:Because it often happens here, young couples who are married and have their second child are still working, and their young children are entrusted to the parents on the husband's or wife's side. It's a pity, they are old, they should relax and enjoy their old age, but they still have to be busy taking care of their young grandchildren.

My parents gave me a great help when I had my kids, they were my pillar but when my kids were 3 years old I put them in a kindergarden.
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby augusta » 22 Mar 2023, 10:25

Marital life comes with alot of expenses so it is good to leave the teens to save money for the future than getting married.
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby afia356 » 22 Apr 2023, 05:41

yeah you said right that in this age don't get married because this is age not perfect for marriage and getting responsibilities
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby deey » 22 Apr 2023, 06:19

Really agree with this
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby Starmix » 22 Apr 2023, 06:30

It is not good to marry young, they are still immature. They are only after of happiness that never lasts forever because love flies away when there is no money. To marry young means a burden, they will only create a baby factory.
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby Netherrealmer » 24 Apr 2023, 06:19

Real ekom wrote:Getting married at a tender age is cool
I have a feeling you are not financially doing well.
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby Nsikan » 24 Apr 2023, 06:27

Take it or leave it, you have to be financially stable before you marry. And that can't be achieved in teenage years.
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby Abdulhamid001 » 28 Apr 2023, 18:32

I agree with you on this, I think when one is ready financially
Emotionally he should be able to get married in as much he is
able to bear the responsibility of his household and in addition to that ,also needs to be matured enough to run a home

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Nsikan wrote:Take it or leave it, you have to be financially stable before you marry. And that can't be achieved in teenage years.
You are absolutely right on this, even if he is still able to to make it financially while at that young age there is still need to be mentally mature to deal with situations alone or else others will meddle into their affairs which is not nice enough.
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby Muhammed001 » 29 Apr 2023, 03:49

Getting married in the teens age or 20 s has a bad effect because they tends to suffer at the long run just because of poor planning,before getting married you should plan the future ,so u won't run into debt
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby Nsikan » 16 May 2023, 04:22

Or you can even avoid marriage altogether. You can make and save more money if you are never married.
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby Inem » 23 May 2023, 06:43

Nsikan wrote:Or you can even avoid marriage altogether. You can make and save more money if you are never married.
When you grow old, you would understand the value of marriage.
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby augusta » 25 May 2023, 07:30

This is the time to save and do other things with your life to save enough for the future
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