Life has its ups and downs. There are lots of reasons why you lose your motivation with life that you need to acknowledge one by one. If a person loses his or her motivation, they will start slacking in. they will start to stop what they started and might start another thing instead of finishing what they had started. They tend to lose their focus because the first thing they think is that they might fail because they just failed. Remember, without motivation it is lifeless. We all need certain energy to push ourselves to aim our goal. May these tips below will able to show you how to get back on track.
Acknowledge that Life is Always Interesting
Life is always interesting regardless you to have bored, have problems or you felt happy. There is always something to be busy at if you move your eyes around you. You will see lots of vendors in the street, they are selling food and everything they could sell under the sun. They will stay there from 6 in the morning and will go home even during midnight. That is really interesting, right? How can they get their motivation from doing it? Think about it.
Small, Realistic and Helpful Goals Is a Must
Everyone has a goal that they like to achieve. You cannot set a goal of having to buy your own car when you know you can’t even pay the down payment. To make it worst, you are unemployed. You must be in high spirit when you make this goal if you are in a situation above. If your goal is to have a car this year and you are unemployment, for sure you will lose your motivation once it will not happen. Don’t fool yourself. Have small, realistic and helpful goals. If you will not assess seriously what goal that fits you, instantly your motivation is lost. Start with small goals like having a job. Have it realistic by looking for a job, have a salary and save money. The ladder going to a bigger goal is the helpful goals that will guide you to have it.
Be True to yourself and Find things you will enjoy along the Way
Being real means you are not doing any false promises to yourself. Everyone needs the motivation to move towards your goal. If you feel like you are losing it, you need to always remember how you started. Also find time to reflect on some moments where you felt it is hard to live without money to scare yourself that if you will not get back and be motivated, it will be more difficult this time. Sometimes, you lost your motivation because you are already burnout from what you are doing. There is something wrong with your ways so you need to change it. Insert something that will make happy, that will make you excited again. Reward yourself when you meet your daily goal. It does not have to be big things, a small one would do.
Look for Inspirations
Your inspiration could be a person like you too. This could be a person who had started from scratch and successful nowadays. Learn from their story. Find the things they do on how to motivate themselves. People are always looking for some good example. If you don’t have then you need to find one. You never know maybe it is the only way to get back on track.
Reflect on Who You Are Before
Who are you before? Do you like yourself before? Do you take a risk before? If you are motivated before and made a good result, then be like before. If you don’t like what you are before then you need to do everything to not do the same mistake again. If you can do it before, there is no reason why you can’t be that person again. People grow and that is how you supposed to be.
Writing is an outlet and it helps us to realize certain things about ourselves as we put the words.
And while I may have finished everything, the journey was not enjoyable. I got too stressed!
