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Why do best friends become strangers?

Postby Coinlv » 22 Jul 2015, 16:09

This has been said that once you have been a best friend to some one is now a stranger to you? Why? Is it too easy for people to leave the other person?
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Re: Why do best friends become strangers?

Postby stardust.kie » 24 Jul 2015, 03:13

I know, it's sad, but as I grow older I realized that people do change and it's not always necessarily a bad thing. Friends are also individuals with different vision and dreams, so sometimes they just don't click with us anymore. But I believe there will be some friends that will stay friends no matter how far or how long you've been apart.
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Re: Why do best friends become strangers?

Postby Allius » 24 Jul 2015, 20:56

Throughout life we get to know different people. We're changing sites and ourselves we're changing. So it is normal we fail to identify with certain people with whom we have identified.
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Re: Why do best friends become strangers?

Postby waelsp » 24 Jul 2015, 21:20

Well i think time change everything about people and there mind so as result they grow afar because there thinking and personality collide, it not easy for people to leave there best friend but sometime there pride interfere and result lake of communication so they become a total stranger.
damn friend you made me remember some painful experience. :cry:
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Re: Why do best friends become strangers?

Postby marciasfv » 24 Jul 2015, 22:40

It's sad but people grow up and change... I've had some best friends become strangers due to the fact that we changed a lot
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Re: Why do best friends become strangers?

Postby Gabrieal87 » 24 Jul 2015, 23:01

I think sometimes people who once was your friend all of a sudden becomes a stranger to you is due to the fact sometimes friends tend to grow a part from each other as they grow older in age
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Re: Why do best friends become strangers?

Postby WorkAtHomeGal » 25 Jul 2015, 04:37

Aside from people typically changing I became to realize something years ago. Most people I had thought were friends or sort of friends all were the same, they all were very very self centered... There is nothing good about being self centered to a point you forget about friends and family because of the person you started a life with. It is sad but so true. Me and my best friend do vent to each other but we make time for the other, we both ask how the other is doing and go from there. Other times people grow apart because of new interest or new friends.
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Re: Why do best friends become strangers?

Postby Tanawan » 26 Jul 2015, 00:28

It is complicated. People end up going to different ways. The friendship of school ends and you meet other people. This makes part of the life. It is sad but normal.
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Re: Why do best friends become strangers?

Postby sprite1950 » 01 Aug 2015, 07:39

People change, their lives take different paths and they have less in common than they once did. When I went to college I had a good friend .. we did everything together and had such fun. Then she met someone and got married. When we met up she would be talking about carpets and curtains and I was still living the high life. We just grew apart.

Having said that I have a friend who I have kept in touch with for 40 years and when I see her, sometimes after many months or years, it's just the same as if we were chatting yesterday.
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Re: Why do best friends become strangers?

Postby tenaj14 » 02 Aug 2015, 07:32

Maybe because that person is not really in the right company or Maybe that person wants to explore more is just using you its really a complicated thing
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Re: Why do best friends become strangers?

Postby Jinglebells » 21 Aug 2015, 05:52

People get busy, or their family life or relationship will come first, happened with a friend of mine, she got really busy in family life. I hear from her again, but once every few months, but I do understand how life can break up friendships.
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Re: Why do best friends become strangers?

Postby chikitta » 21 Aug 2015, 07:15

I think it's more like an attitude thing because when you become friends you certainly have the same interests but as time moves by we start seeing things differently thereby causing friction between us, because of the different opinions that we have people part and become strangers at some point.
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Re: Why do best friends become strangers?

Postby CTx » 21 Aug 2015, 14:04

Some of the "friends" we used to have, were only "friends" because we were together several hours a day, 5 days a week. This, in a school context. Then, when people grew older and moved to different schools, the so called friendship fell apart. In fact they were only colleagues. There are some real friendships though, that last throughout life.
I didn't keep any friends from school and only a few from college. It's sad to be honest.
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Re: Why do best friends become strangers?

Postby yairhaim » 21 Aug 2015, 14:21

My friend became stranger!
I don't know why is that...
I Hope everything will be good! :)
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Re: Why do best friends become strangers?

Postby gabr1ela » 21 Aug 2015, 17:01

I had a good friend, but good question ....
Often when we think we can make mistakes and say some words that we might miss ...
I'm wodering why? because none of us can keep a friendly place, you get to a small quarrel leads to hate you forever, which is very sad, but unfortunately it happens. :geek: :!:
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Re: Why do best friends become strangers?

Postby blair » 21 Aug 2015, 19:43

Maybe each person now has his own priority and the friendship is just not an immediate concern. I do not want to say this but people do really change even the ones who promised to be there no matter what.
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Re: Why do best friends become strangers?

Postby Angie10 » 21 Aug 2015, 19:46

It's never nice when this happens, but people inevitably grow older and have different priorities. This may see them moving in totally different directions, meaning they have less and less in common. The friendship then comes to a natural end, nobody's to blame but it's still painful.
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Re: Why do best friends become strangers?

Postby fab » 21 Aug 2015, 20:17

Yes, I had a friend and he pulled away from me for a reason, it seems that we were not friends, excluded me from everything
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Re: Why do best friends become strangers?

Postby robeen05 » 21 Aug 2015, 21:07

Yeah ! That happened to me just this year (2015) but i don't care about it , beside if they are a real friends they will never be your strangers ;)
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Re: Why do best friends become strangers?

Postby leeannl » 22 Aug 2015, 01:57

I had a close friend but they pretty much disappeared from my life and stopped returning calls. So I just stopped trying, I don't have time for people that aren't willing to give to a relationship with me.
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