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Top Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby Netherrealmer » 31 Oct 2022, 14:15

Most people my age who are married are currently suffering with the inflation. I am single and my parents had pressured me to marry multiple times and I declined because I do not want to waste my 20s trying to raise children. I want to spend my 20s trying to get rich, Live a fun bachelor lifestyle and be free from responsibilities. A lot of people starts getting married on their 30s and 40s where they are more financially stable and mentally mature. My cousin who got married at age 17 is crying from financial problems right now and asked me to lend him some cash.

I know there are some women who wants to get married on their 20s because women's fertility is limited but if your career is doing well, You will be rich enough to preserve your eggs and hire a surrogate.
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby Yugocean » 01 Nov 2022, 06:18

Thats the worst thing, they will be trying to build future of their Kids on old age, early married couple are able to help kids before retirement.
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby Netherrealmer » 01 Nov 2022, 06:57

Not really, If you are financially secure age doesnt matter. My highschool batchmates lives in poverty and I don't. Also with all the technology available right now to slow down aging, It is becoming less of a worry. Janet Jackson becomes a mom at 50 and her kid is financially secure. So is George Clooney who is still in good health. I have no vices so I know I can live up to 100. I will also homeschool my future kids so they will graduate highschool much earlier.
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby nela13 » 01 Nov 2022, 14:51

I understand you, we only decided to marry after we finished the university despite I was dating my husband since high school. Many people were always asking us when we were going to marry but we didn't care about the pressione and we got marry when we had a job and some financial stability. We only got married in our latest 20s.
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby augusta » 03 Nov 2022, 05:33

yeah married life comes with a lot of financial responsibilities so it is good that one should get married when the person is financially stable this way you be saving money better.
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby Yugocean » 04 Nov 2022, 07:43

All types of responsibilities are in married life.
Ok, who are singles here getting ready to mingle?
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby kennysplash » 05 Nov 2022, 08:10

But then there are people that have figured out their lives and are doing well at very young age. Albeit a small percentage they occupy.
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby augusta » 10 Nov 2022, 12:15

Yugocean wrote:All types of responsibilities are in married life.
Ok, who are singles here getting ready to mingle?


Lol, here I'm I. But seriously adulthood sometimes seems a scam because one is bestow with a lot of responsibilities that you miss your single youthful days
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby Yugocean » 11 Nov 2022, 08:00

augusta wrote:
Yugocean wrote:All types of responsibilities are in married life.
Ok, who are singles here getting ready to mingle?


Lol, here I'm I. But seriously adulthood sometimes seems a scam because one is bestow with a lot of responsibilities that you miss your single youthful days


Let it be, are you male or female?
Did you know, at early days I though Netherrealmer (fregal then) was fe-male, because s-he was too much interested in video games.
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby Netherrealmer » 21 Nov 2022, 13:34

I am a dude, If I am female I will be a lesbian because I will never find men attractive because they are hairy and stinky. :lol:

Having a wife in a patriarchal country is easy since you can buy one but I do not want to get married to a woman here since I don't like conservatives. They are terrible in bed. Thats why I want to move to a westernized country.

I am starting to think I may not like to have kids. I wont make a good role model. I do not want parasites to kill my financial freedom. The Earth is overpopulated already, My brother already continued the family Bloodline with his 3 wives.
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby Yugocean » 22 Nov 2022, 05:19

Men there are stinky because they stink. I don't, I clean myself daily. But we are stright.
You should not go behind having kids, population Jihad is a reason for them, you cannot escape Taliban, IS anywhere if they overpopulate.

But better move on quick before it is too late
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Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

Postby augusta » 24 Nov 2022, 23:48

Yugocean wrote:
augusta wrote:
Yugocean wrote:All types of responsibilities are in married life.
Ok, who are singles here getting ready to mingle?


Lol, here I'm I. But seriously adulthood sometimes seems a scam because one is bestow with a lot of responsibilities that you miss your single youthful days


Let it be, are you male or female?
Did you know, at early days I though Netherrealmer (fregal then) was fe-male, because s-he was too much interested in video games.

    From my name you should know I'm female. I know you are a male because I doubt a female would want a not too feminine name.
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    Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

    Postby Shavkat » 25 Nov 2022, 02:38

    I do think that young couples should not married so soon. They need to be more stable emotionally, physically, and financially.
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    Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

    Postby Yugocean » 25 Nov 2022, 06:45

    augusta wrote:From my name you should know I'm female. I know you are a male because I doubt a female would want a not too feminine name.

    Yes, I though you are female, but I even though you are married or in a relationship.
    So we should date here.
    How's life etc.
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    Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

    Postby arunima » 25 Nov 2022, 07:12

    I don't think that there is a correct age to get married. You should get married when you are ready for it... physically, mentally, emotionally and definitely financially. Some people achieve it at young age while others might keep struggling till late age and even in their forties.
    I have seen young couples married in their mid twenties doing pretty well in their life. My marriage is one such example.
    But definitely I would not be in favour of teen marriages. Most of them are impulsive actions. People need to mature enough go go ahead with the responsibility of marriage.
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    Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

    Postby Netherrealmer » 30 Nov 2022, 07:17

    Some parents are in a rush to get their teens married because of their abstinence belief. They rather have their kids married as virgins than letting their kids be financially stable.
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    Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

    Postby Pousinha » 03 Dec 2022, 02:57

    I think teens must be at school and finish their studies and not to leave school to be married and raising children who struggle with extreme poverty, forced in their turn to only accept informal (even illegal) underpaid jobs to carry on a miserable life. During their 20s it could be different (at least, High School is over and there is the possibility to find a discreet job), especially during the last 20s, when university is finished. And I also think it's not that burden to abstain: it's truly possible to marry as virgins at whatever age. Unlike the animals, human being is gifted with reasoning to not act only by instinct.
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    Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

    Postby Tendz » 04 Dec 2022, 07:16

    Once you get married, there are hundreds of responsibilities over your head. If you marry in your teens and 20's, you will not be able to make your career, make yourself.
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    Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

    Postby kinansusantini » 07 Dec 2022, 13:27

    Get married on 20s is very popular here at the moment, for teens who already have their financial freedom maybe this is a good thing, but some that I've seen are still having trouble surviving, not to mention that most of them immediately decide to have children after getting married at a very young age
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    Re: Do not get married on your teens and 20s

    Postby misha » 10 Dec 2022, 09:25

    i think after 30 marriage is good as we becomes financially independent and also mature enough to handle things.. sometime early marriage becomes problem as we are not enough mature to handle things. as age grows up our responsibility increases
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