by grecy0905 » 16 Sep 2017, 06:14 Real happiness or genuine happiness, whatever you call it, you are the only one that knows it. If you are happy when you have your own house, jobs, true friends or just money, do everything to get it. Some will criticize you if you find your happiness by having lots of money, however, they do not know your struggle in life so don’t mind them and try to reach your goal in getting it. A definition always comes from what you feel about it. Let me guide you in life’s realization and what you really need to do to find your real happiness.
Weigh your Option
Weighing your option is like putting one happiness to another and what is the kind of happiness that you can’t get rid and you can live without. For example, you find happiness in getting a job because you are earning money and it can provide for your needs, however, if you begin to feel exhausted with all the work you are getting, thinking you already sacrifice your health and time for your family, does it really make you happy? By weighing your option, you will able to categorize what makes you happy. You can put “having money” to number 2 of your lists, and “happy at work” to be on top of it.
Bigger and True Happiness
There are kinds of happiness that you get from your friends, your co-worker, neighbor, favorite personalities, family, and pets. You need to categorize it on how you feel about it and how they had given you the kind of happiness you never thought you had. If your friends are always there to cheer you up and make you laugh, you don’t need to put them on top of your lists immediately. Sometimes there is deeper happiness that even when you are not laughing it brings you joy inside. It is like having a peace of mind that you have your friends that are true to you and stay with you no matter what. It is not always associated with a good and long laugh. It should dig deeper into your hearts and you know it for sure.
Some people will put the happiness of their family on top of the list. We are all working hard for our family and if they are happy, we are fulfilled. That is the kind of happiness we get from it. It is the deeper form of happiness that is why we put it on the lists. Second could be, the happiness you can get from friends because you know you have a shoulder to lean on and they are true to you. Third should be the one you feel from your pets. Pets are so innocent that it can make or break you. No matter how imperfect your pets, knowing that you have at deeper understanding and relationship, that is happiness already. No matter what kind of happiness is that you just need to make lists and find time to spend with them for a more lasting happiness.
The Real Meaning of Happiness
What is the meaning of happiness to you? It is sad that there are people who are laughing out loud but they are crying inside. To have real happiness is what I always pray at night for all the people I love and yet sometimes problems arise that they will start to feel they haven’t been happy for a long time. I feel the same way when I have problems. I long for the real happiness knowing that I have it all the time. It is just me that makes things worst for me sometimes by over thinking and not giving myself time to reflect and meditate on life.
What is real happiness? You really need to know that. You are the only one that can answer that. Your life’s experiences and the decision will able to help you. You need to have a one night of reflection and give yourself time to realize what you are missing. Remember, a life without real happiness is a wasted life. Life is short so you need to answer what makes you feel really happy and do everything to make happy be part of your everyday life.
