by chikitta » 17 Jan 2017, 10:49 Life is like a rollercoster, you will go up and still come down, you will go round and round and still end up in the place where it all started.
When you get into a relationship, you know the reason why you are there and why you chose that particular person to be in your life. But sometimes when things go wrong we tend to start having different feelings and ideas towards that person. We may even decide to do things that will hurt us both but what does one do when things turn sour?
Here are some tips on how to deal with such issues.
When you feel you have reached a place where you cannot stand each other, the first thing you need to do is take some time out. Take a holiday or something, just be apart from each other for a while. While your there think about the two of you, think about the reasons as to why you are both fighting, what made you get to that point, was it your problem or your partners. Think about the love that you shared when you started that relationship, what attracted you both to each other, and with all those thoughts in your mind you will definitely come up with a solution to be able to rekindle the love that you once shared.
Sometimes we find ourselves so deeply involved in other people's miseries and forget about ourselves. That should not be the case even if we they have problems, it doesn't mean that we don't have problems of our own. Take the time to also look after yourself, Think about your emotions, feelings and well-being, because if you let that pass you by you may slip into some kind of depression and you won't even know.
I remember one lady who got married, and she was the happiest person ever she was on cloud nine. She never thought that marriage could overwhelm her at some point, but it did. She worked so hard to see that her husband was happy and well taken care of. When she started getting kids she became more overwhelmed but she thought nothing about it. Until it hit her that she never had time for herself, and that she was working towards everyone's happiness, what about her who took care of her. When it finally downed on her it had taken a toll on her she had depression yet she didn't know. She had lost so much weight, she didn't eat properly so much was going on in her life not positively but negatively. So before you get to that point look and be aware of what is going on in your body, and just try to balance it all out.
