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Knowing the real you

Postby Amans1234 » 30 Jul 2017, 06:49

Earth is a part of the solar system. It consists of two things in it. They are living and non-living things. Living things are those that can feel, move and ultimately that have a life in them. Non-living things are those that simply don't have life in them. We, as human beings belong to the living things who have a life in them. Also, we are superior of all of the living creatures on the earth. We are born to create our meaningful existence on the world. Yes, we want to have a meaningful life which is only possible if we can know our real value. I mean that we have to be true to ourselves or simply, we have to love our own life.

In today's world, most of the times, most of the people forget to love their own life. As a result, they get discouraged to do things that can help to make their life happier and prosperous. So, it is important to love yourself to live happily. Here are some ways that can help you to love yourself.

1. Start telling yourself what you love about yourself
Be honest to yourself and point out what you like and dislike about yourself. Find out what you need to do to change your dislike into likes about yourself. Remember, what you see in others is often what you see in yourself. Analyze your behavior with others. Remember, Our disappointment in others often reflects our disappointment in ourselves.  Our acceptance of others often reflects our acceptance of ourselves. Also, you must not please others to be loved by yourself. At first, learn to love yourself by making decisions solely for yourself.

2. Believe in reality than in ideality
Remember, life is not like what you see in movies where a hero can get his beloved lover at the end or where the movie ends happily. Life has a surprising way to test your ability and it tastes bitter. So, you have to digest it happily. What i mean to say is that you have to accept for who you are but not for who you are in your dream. You may be good looking or ugly looking but its OK to be both. What thing is important is your belief and trust in yourself. You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection. Love yourself first and everything . falls into line. “If only you could sense how important you are to the lives of those you meet; how important you can be to people you may never even dream of. There is something of yourself that you leave at every meeting with another person.”

3. Distance from those who don't value your worth and forgive mistake made in past
Remind yourself that you don’t have to do what everyone else is doing. Everyone in this earth is different from others. Each of them have their own unique identity and unique taste of things. One can not be same as others but there can be similarities and dissimilarities between them. It is very good to have more similarities between one another than having more dissimilarities between them. But it is also the best to be alone than being in a wrong relationship. Also, you should forgive your past mistakes or pain suffered from others because the act of forgiving our enemy or the person's behind our sufferings in life can lead to uplift ourselves from those mainkinds.
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Re: Knowing the real you

Postby ladyninja » 30 Jul 2017, 18:21

Love this article! Will get my kids to read this. It is so relevant in today's world where there is an image portrayed on media on how you need to look. If you are not a particular size, then you are not cool. Or if you don't have x amount of money, then you are not there yet.
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Re: Knowing the real you

Postby DudeThatsErin » 30 Jul 2017, 21:26

I don't believe we are Superior to anyone or anything on Earth. That thinking is what starts wars and what causes us to kill our planet. Yes we are near the top of the food chain but everything has its place without the grass we wouldn't have oxygen without oxygen we die. It all goes hand-in-hand.

This article has a few good points but that one sentence just angered me.
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Re: Knowing the real you

Postby purple19 » 30 Jul 2017, 22:21

Great article! i believe one should not compare to others as this creates sadness and low self esteem
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Re: Knowing the real you

Postby ceci » 31 Jul 2017, 14:09

I love this article too, thanks for reminding me on loving myself and be the real me, anytime from now onwards.
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Re: Knowing the real you

Postby Wyvh » 01 Aug 2017, 18:35

Nice one. Does 'knowing the real you' really include self-esteem ?
You got me at "Distance from those who don't value your worth and forgive mistake made in past", I couldn't help but give you a reputation point. I love it.
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Re: Knowing the real you

Postby haripriyavkl » 01 Aug 2017, 18:53

Amazing article my friend. It is true that when you can't love yourself, you can't love others. Being us is the most difficult thing in a world where it constantly degrades one's value by trying to control others lives. But despite the situation, we should live the way we wanted because, this our life- once chance given to us to prove and live the way we dreamed. Thanks. :thumbup:
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Re: Knowing the real you

Postby ahmedo24 » 03 Aug 2017, 18:09

A nice article keep the good work. Honestly if people discover who they are life will be very simple and interesting. It is fundamental that we can't be the same and every one has his or her shortcomings and perfection.
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Re: Knowing the real you

Postby bestwriter » 09 Aug 2017, 00:12

I have this motto 'Love yourself and help save planet earth' I say this because by loving our self we will try to live a good life and that says it all.
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Re: Knowing the real you

Postby ladyninja » 10 Aug 2017, 07:46

Well done @Amans1234 :) This has to be the only article on this forum that has passed the 300 views mark. What is the secret to this dear friend?
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Re: Knowing the real you

Postby KloeRinz » 10 Aug 2017, 13:43

It's nice to be constantly reminded of those things that you've said. It's too easy to forget the things that matter in life when you get caught up by everyday struggles.
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Re: Knowing the real you

Postby adek » 17 Aug 2017, 19:48

The real you is in you
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Re: Knowing the real you

Postby JoeMilford » 17 Aug 2017, 22:22

This was a very positive article, and I totally agree with the sentiments expressed here. A man once said that "The unexamined life is not worth living", and I think that we should all be introspective and metaphysical in nature as we explore our selves and our purposes here. Life is a search and journey, and it is often full of existential difficulties and challenges, but these challenges and experiences define who we are.
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Re: Knowing the real you

Postby augusta » 28 Aug 2017, 15:04

I have always have this confidence that no body can be like me and I don't want to be like any one and it has been working for me.
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Re: Knowing the real you

Postby bestwriter » 10 Sep 2017, 11:37

I agree with all what you have said and that is what I too believe in. We have been given a package and we should be satisfied with it and not try to compete with the Joneses as they say.
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Re: Knowing the real you

Postby Angie10 » 10 Sep 2017, 12:37

Fantastic article, Amans1234 ....thanks for sharing :) I think it's very important for each one of us to KNOW our worth and be proud of who we are, to understand that we're enough as we are, to refrain from trying to change ourselves to fit in with others' definition of NORMAL or acceptable.

In order for that to happen, we need to LOVE ourselves first. Once you do that and project it outwards with conviction, other people will see that and respect you for it.
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Re: Knowing the real you

Postby cmoneyspinner » 17 Sep 2018, 16:58

If you really want to get to know the real you, go through "trials and tribulations". They either make you or break you.

Of course, if you don't have any troubles in this life, then applying your 3 tips should work. :)
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