[Netherrealmer]

Instagram models, mostly white women are getting very sexual comments from some South Asian men. Mostly from Pakistan and India. Why does this thing happen? Look there are billions of gentlemen and respectful men in India and Pakistan but because internet is affordable, some men who lacks education gets access to cheap but fast internet.

Indian movies, Mostly the Bollywood ones had portrayed white women as easy to get loose women.




The male indian protagonist is either a playboy or he is so handsome he is being chased by white women, In the end he will end up with the demure, conservative, hard to get Indian woman. This cheap portrayal of white women in Bollywood movies leads to some Indian men sending raunchy messages to white women.

There is a song titled "Show bobs" that is a compilation of grammatically incorrect sexual harassment comments white women in instagram are getting from India and Pakistan.

I never realize how severe it is ever since a female influencer hired me as an admin. The dirty comments she is getting are from India and Pakistan mostly. They are either from teenagers or incel virgins on their 30s. Cleaning her comment section is a chore that I almost tapped out.

[Fergal]

This sounds like quite a sad situation. Do the men making the comments, expect the women they are commenting on, to fly out and meet them?

[shamisiyal1]

Thanks to Indian movies, Many men have this assumption white women are easy to get.!!!!! The white woman has always been shown in Bollywood movies to offer a contrast to the native Indian woman. Here’s how popular films like ‘RRR’, ‘Rang De Basanti’ or ‘Lagaan’ have added to this viewpoint over the years.

[Netherrealmer]

This sounds like quite a sad situation. Do the men making the comments, expect the women they are commenting on, to fly out and meet them?

yeah they expect the white women will send them nudes or sleep with them. That's why female influencers now hire mods to take care of these creepy messages. Non influencer white women had been receiving creepy messages from South Asia too.

[ptrikha21]

Being an Indian I know that what you have mentioned is something that makes one feel ashamed.
Such things demean even the civilized and the more well behaved Indian Men like me.
Yes there are songs that portray so many Western dancers with fair complexion dancing in short dresses, which are fine for the Western taste yet something that many in India might feel otherwise.
The reasons are orthodoxy, family bring up in many families where Men are made to feel superior, lack of proper education and lax law against Eve Teasers, Molesters and even lack of firm action against Rapists in many cases.
Activists and NGOs have been trying to alter the situation but sometimes the Media - Advertisement as well as Movies seem to propagate some biased views.
I sometimes see Ads where white complexioned females are shown advertising Shaving Creams and Underwears!!
Why ? Can't a Man himself be shown promoting such things?
Why to propagate something which feels double meaning?

Well it is a big debate but I am not sure if Media and Movies will change.

[Netherrealmer]

I think this is their way to glorify Indian women, that you have to work hard and be the best version of yourself to win her heart. Meanwhile white women are portrayed in bollywood as mute and dumb easy to get bimbos. LOL America and UK have a growing number of involuntary virgin men because a lot of white women have hard to reach standards.

They should not expect white women will sleep with them by sending perverted messages in instagram, Maybe in tinder but not Instagram and facebook.Also Hollywood is also not an accurate portrayal of American women neither. Many easterners have no idea that many western women are actually conservative.

[ptrikha21]

I think this is their way to glorify Indian women, that you have to work hard and be the best version of yourself to win her heart. .... that many western women are actually conservative.

In my work, I have had the chance to interact with American as well as European Men and Women and I understand that they are a lot different from those shown in Hollywood.
Yet movies disorient our minds a lot.
And mind you, there would just be a few Indian men who run after their girl friends or start dancing anywhere, as shown in Bollywood songs!

[Netherrealmer]

A day in a life of an instagram Mod.





No wonder this woman hired me to moderate her socials. A lot of the messages are so perverted.

He asked for it, so I sent him his avatar.



Take note my client is 19, These guys had been bothering her since she was 15. When her instagram got monetized she hired mods. I got recommended to her. She is not an Onlyfans model nor a model, she does make up tutorial in Youtube, her channel is marketed for girls. She doesnt dress sexy but gets these messages because she is white.

[Semi]

Ladies face a lot of harassment akd some are very subtle.

[ptrikha21]

A day in a life of an instagram Mod.





No wonder this woman hired me to moderate her socials. A lot of the messages are so perverted.

He asked for it, so I sent him his avatar.



Take note my client is 19, These guys had been bothering her since she was 15......

This is so bad ! Such Perverts !
But I do understand because we hear of crimes as well as against women and a lot of Men in India have zero sensibility and behave indecently.

[Jem Smith]

That is unfortunate.

Although I'm sure it's worse for instagram models and influencers, pretty much any woman who has an online presence gets gross messages from men. I've had men send me weird flirty messages, and even send me unsolicited pictures of their junk. This despite having clearly marked on my profile that I am not single.

I love your responses as mod, Netherrealmer.

[Netherrealmer]

I think as long as Indian media keeps portraying White women as s-words, Uneducated men with internet will keep sending these messages. The perverted messages became a song.

[Fergal]

send me unsolicited pictures of their junk

That's shocking, on what platforms has this happened?

[Jem Smith]

send me unsolicited pictures of their junk

That's shocking, on what platforms has this happened?

Facebook. Friends of mine have also had it happen on Snapchat and other apps I don't have. At least Facebook will usually punish them for it.

[KityCat]

I stay away from insta and twitter for this reason , it's full of brain-dead Indians everywhere , and I am saying this as an Indian myself , it's disgusting.

[Netherrealmer]

Recently a Russian girl ranked what men she finds most attractive in Youtube,twitter and tiktok. She puts East Asian men in number 1, A lot of East European women find East Asian men attractive because KDrama and there is a shortage of men in Russia so a lot of them go to China to find a man. Her comment section got filled by hatred Angry South Asian calling East Asian men low testosterone and other derogatory messages. I have a feeling they are the same guys who send sexual messages to white women.

[JASPREET]

I feel ashamed of this, you can blame the lack of education of some people and of course affordable internet and of course movies for that

[Netherrealmer]

If they want to have a White woman they should try to be like Shashi Kapoor. Sending offensive messages is not the way to a white woman's heart. My client still get offensive messages