[bestwriter]

From what I have observed living separately with mutual consent has become trendy. I know of two cases. The involved couples seem quite happy with the arrangement and are on friendly terms.

They are free to live their life without one breathing down the neck of the other

What say?

[Netherrealmer]

I know that there are married couples who sleep on separate beds or separate rooms because they have different sleeping and working schedules.

[bestwriter]

I am talking of those who live separetly and not in the same house. This way they have total freedom from each other

[millie998]

That kind of setup can really work if there's trust and maturity. It's not about distance, it's about freedom and respect.

[monster_masterpiece]

That kind of setup can really work if there's trust and maturity. It's not about distance, it's about freedom and respect.

Every one read subject from his side.

[bestwriter]

When children are involved this could pose a problem unless the children are taken care of by both and planning is done how to care for them.

[Jem Smith]

I am talking of those who live separetly and not in the same house. This way they have total freedom from each other

Freida Kahlo and her husband did that. They lived in two houses next to each other connected by a bridge for when they wanted to visit each other. Seems like a good option if you're wealthy enough to do it and want to.

https://www.thenotsoinnocentsabroad.com/blog/diego-rivera-and-frida-kahlo-house-studio-museum

For myself, I'd miss my husband too much if we slept in separate rooms because I'm so used to sleeping beside him. I can definitely see the benefits of having your own room in the house though to put your stuff in and keep as you like it.

[bestwriter]

This arrangement is only for those who need space so to say and if one cannot live without the other the question of them living separately will nevere arise.

[germainebull]

This mutually agreed-upon separation seems to be a new way of living in a free and respectful relationship. People are discovering that they don't have to live under the same roof to maintain love or friendship. There is room to breathe, to discover themselves and to continue communicating peacefully.

For some couples or lovers, this is a solution to avoid daily conflicts without completely breaking up the relationship. It can be a way to heal, rebuild trust or even develop a true friendship. Not everyone needs physical intimacy all the time to feel loved or supported.

So, if both parties agree and respect each other, then it is a plan that can work. Relationships change and people find ways that work for them. What is important is open communication and goodwill. If it brings happiness and peace, then it is something to be supported.

[bestwriter]

I think a marriage suffocates a person many a time One's individuality gets compromised to adjust to the partner's idiosyncrasies and so on

[Padmavati753]

Absolutely, it seems to be a refreshing approach for many. Flexibility can lead to greater contentment.

[bestwriter]

Absolutely, it seems to be a refreshing approach for many. Flexibility can lead to greater contentment.

As long as it is done with consent from both there should be no issues.

[Padmavati753]

Absolutely, it seems to be a refreshing approach for many. Flexibility can lead to greater contentment.

As long as it is done with consent from both there should be no issues.

Agreed, mutual consent is key for a healthy arrangement.

[germainebull]

I think a marriage suffocates a person many a time One's individuality gets compromised to adjust to the partner's idiosyncrasies and so on

It's not a lie bro. There are marriages that suffocate you until you forget yourself. You find yourself changing to please someone else and your soul is exhausted. The freedom of being you slowly melts away. Marriage becomes like a mental prison instead of a partnership of love.

But not every marriage is like that. If you find someone who understands and respects you, you can bloom in marriage. Boundaries and communication are important. Don't close yourself off for fear of losing yourself. A good marriage is built by two mature people.

[bestwriter]

Not all marriages cause suffocation Mine has not