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Match Making

Postby bestwriter » 22 Oct 2025, 03:52

Not so much in other countries but in India Match Making is active. There are countless Sites that help aspirants to pick their life partners.

Apart from Sites there are off line Match Makers and some friends and family help too. I have helped my niecess and a nephew to get their life partners.

In my case it was more what is called 'propsed ' in that the young man wanted to meet me and we met at a common friend's house and the rest is history

What is your thought on this?
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Re: Matching Making

Postby germainebull » 22 Oct 2025, 11:48

This is a very interesting story. India has a unique tradition of helping people find their soulmates through matchmaking, and it continues even in the current generation. The internet and family play a big role in helping people find their soulmates.

You have done a great job by helping your siblings find their soulmates. That is a sign of love and family solidarity. And as for you, meeting someone through friendship and later becoming history is very interesting.

Everyone has their own way of loving and being loved. What is important is respect, communication and a genuine heart. Love comes in different forms and every journey is unique.
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Re: Matching Making

Postby bestwriter » 23 Oct 2025, 02:58

This method seems better as one doest not expect much nor are demands made as opposed to when one falls in love. The family makes enquiries which does not happen in love marriages
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Re: Matching Making

Postby germainebull » 25 Oct 2025, 09:22

This is an interesting argument about arranged marriages. There is some truth to it — the expectations are quite different. In an arranged marriage, people enter with a more cautious attitude, knowing that the relationship will be built gradually. There is no pressure of sudden love or high romantic expectations.

The family is also directly involved, doing research on the person’s character, history, and values. This provides a kind of social security, especially in societies where the family is the foundation of life. On the other hand, love marriages often begin with strong feelings, but can be challenged by not knowing the person’s innermost being.
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Re: Matching Making

Postby bestwriter » 25 Oct 2025, 11:19

Glad that you have understood the advantages of arranged marriages
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Re: Match Making

Postby Padmavati753 » 26 Oct 2025, 09:09

I completely agree—matchmaking plays a significant role in many cultures, and it's fascinating how both traditional and modern methods coexist.
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Re: Match Making

Postby Netherrealmer » 26 Oct 2025, 23:26

I don't mind arranged marriage as long as I'm not getting arranged with a cousin or a minor.
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Re: Match Making

Postby bestwriter » 26 Oct 2025, 23:58

Netherrealmer wrote:I don't mind arranged marriage as long as I'm not getting arranged with a cousin or a minor.
I think such situations arise when one falls in love but never in arranged marriages
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Re: Match Making

Postby germainebull » 29 Oct 2025, 09:00

Padmavati753 wrote:I completely agree—matchmaking plays a significant role in many cultures, and it's fascinating how both traditional and modern methods coexist.
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Yoo bro you are absolutely right. This matter of finding a partner is very common in many cultures. The elders used to know how to choose someone important to the family.

But these days things have changed. There are apps and social networks where people meet there. Although not all of them have pure intentions, some are just lying. One must be very careful.

The main thing is respect and understanding. Whether the old way or the modern way, true love requires effort. Don't rush into marriage without knowing the person's character well.
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Re: Match Making

Postby Padmavati753 » 29 Oct 2025, 12:21

germainebull wrote:
Padmavati753 wrote:I completely agree—matchmaking plays a significant role in many cultures, and it's fascinating how both traditional and modern methods coexist.
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Yoo bro you are absolutely right. This matter of finding a partner is very common in many cultures. The elders used to know how to choose someone important to the family.

But these days things have changed. There are apps and social networks where people meet there. Although not all of them have pure intentions, some are just lying. One must be very careful.

The main thing is respect and understanding. Whether the old way or the modern way, true love requires effort. Don't rush into marriage without knowing the person's character well.
Absolutely. It’s all about balancing tradition with modernity while prioritizing genuine connections. Well said!
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