[Netherrealmer]

This woman in this video asked her hard working good provider husband to quit his job. He did, He is kind, loyal and hardworker and gave her what she wants but now she wants divorce to "find her self"

People with abusive and toxic spouses stay with their spouses while we have people who lucky to get perfect spouses but wants divorces. No wonder why some people in the USA goes abroad to find love because a lot of Americans cheats and divorces for no reason. So they go for culture with more closer family ties.

This is also a reason why many Millenials and Gen Z do not want to get married.

[Fergal]

I wonder why people put such personal videos online. I feel sorry for her husband and her children, that such personal family matters are shared with the world.

[eldavis]

She really doesn't know what she has, and it's a pity. By the time she finds herself it might be too late to come back. Why can't she find herself with the help of the husband?

[Jem Smith]

This is a weird thing for random people to be weighing in on. No fault divorce is a thing in a many countries now. Anybody is free to divorce their spouse at any time for any reason. Odd that she's sharing it, but I'm not sure what the point is of people making a big deal out of it. It's one woman making her own choice.

Speaking as a gen x-er, the reasons some of my friends have given for getting married are:
- money (weddings are expensive- yes you can have a cheaper ceremony, but if you're also not religious and don't want a big wedding you can just live together and not actually get married at all)
-They have seen their parents in bad marriages and/or messy divorces and don't want that.

Don't judge people who stay with abusive partners. Leaving an abusive spouse is dangerous so it makes total sense to be afraid to.
https://jbws.org/news/the-first-18-months-after-leaving-an-abusive-partner-are-the-most-dangerous/
"“The majority of domestic violence homicides and most of all serious injuries in abusive relationships occur when the survivor ends the relationship.”"

[Fergal]

This is a weird thing for random people to be weighing in on.

I suppose when she posted a video online, it is not unusual that people will comment and give their opinion on it.

[Jem Smith]

This is a weird thing for random people to be weighing in on.

I suppose when she posted a video online, it is not unusual that people will comment and give their opinion on it.

Sure. It's odd that she has done that. I don't really understand why some people put there personal stuff out there like that.

--- 01 Aug 2025, 16:26 ---

I feel sorry for her husband and her children

Doe she have children? I didn't see that mentioned. It does suck for her husband though.

[Fergal]

Doe she have children? I didn't see that mentioned. It does suck for her husband though

I watched some of the video and thought she said that they had children. I understood that her husband left his job to look after the children while she focused on her business.

[Jem Smith]

I watched some of the video and thought she said that they had children. I understood that her husband left his job to look after the children while she focused on her business.

Nobody would raise an eyebrow at that if it was the other way around. Just that part I mean, the leaving him, well, who knows?