[Jinglebells]

I have to say with somethings I can forgive and forget, other things I can not forget even if I really wanted to. I don't even know if forgiveness for somethings done are even possible.

How about you? do you forgive people for wrong doing and forget and put it behind you? Or can you forgive a little and never forget.

Part of me not forgetting is being cautious in the future , to just be aware of people.

[Kaslawjd]

It depends on the offense and how close I am to the offender. There are somethings I don't bat an eye at, because I have no great expectations in the first place. But there have been people who have hurt me to my core and I know deep inside I have not forgiven them and I certainly have not forgotten.

It's not that I'm incapable of forgiving them, it's the fact that they have no concern about the lasting pain they have caused. In as much as I do believe that forgiveness is for the wronged person, It just makes my heart ache to see how some people can treat others with no shame or remorse.

[DnkH]

I always forgive but never forget. That does not mean I seek revenge. I never hate someone. I keep things that happrned to me in mind because I want to be carefull next time. I won't trust that person again.

[Tanawan]

I always forgive, but never forget. I thinks you lose the trust and it is difficult to forget.

[Katriona_22]

For me maybe it depends on the level of the heartaches it causes you, forgiving is not a hard thing to do, I can easily be done any moment or even in a second, but forgetting is another thing, sometimes people forgive but they never forgets easily it takes time.

[sprite1950]

Some things are harder to forgive than others. I think I am a generally forgiving person and over time I will forget a wrongdoing as long as it hasn't hurt me too deeply.

I have forgiven my son numerous times for the horribe things he has done to us. People outside the family would not want to know him .. but I suppose we are more tolerant of those we love. I don't think we can afford to forget because it's protection against a similar thing happening again whether it be the same person or someone else.

[Torre246]

Yes. I usually try and take situations for what they are, and that makes it easier to forgive and forget people when you're not so obsessed with a single event.

[cards2015]

i always forgive when they have a mistake to what they done, but forget to someone who never forgive me

[CorruptedTycho]

Forgive is easy, if the other person is hiding it, then it's harder to forgive nor forget, tell me the truth and I will forgive and forget you faster

[mimi88jade]

This is not easy, the forget part and forgive part because as a human we have different upbringings and we are vulnerable and our emotions are shaky. But the best thing is really to forgive and forget though so hard but still we need these to move on and have a peaceful living.

[tenaj14]

To be honest, its not easy to forgive and forget. But as a christian I have to forgive so that I will be forgiven.

[TrudiTrudzz]

Ever since I can remember, it has always been quite a challenge for me to forgive once I'm hurt. I have forgiven people and I've been working on that and there has been improvement but one thing I can assure you is that I will never forget.

[Angie10]

It depends on the person, what they did, and to what degree it really upset me. It takes me a while to forgive, but i always try to let it go, to avoid it comnsuming me and taking over my life, maybe even turning me into a bitter and twisted person. However, I NEVER forget.

[leahadk]

No, honestly I am not easy to give second chances especially if I thought you were worthy enough to get a first chance. However, if I do happen to forget (which has happened once) then it is safe to say I would probably forgive too.